Transitioning From Web Developer to Comic Book Author:

Breaking Agreements

It is important to distinguish between provisions that invalidate a contract and those that simply nullify it. Some deficiencies in documentation in the corporate field may lead to the inclusion of agreements in one of these categories. If z.B. decisions are incorrectly handed over to a company, it may invalidate the contract or invalidate it. As a general rule, agreements provide that parties avoid legal liability when situations beyond the control of one or both parties in so-called “force majeure” cases. This is commonly stated as an example and explicitly in contracts for which elements that are not controlled by the parties prevent the delivery. For those who have to engage too much and then break their agreements, much of what drives them to live this way is not only that they follow the stimulation and satisfaction that comes from participating in exciting projects, but that the process to do so allows them to isolate themselves from the shame of inadequacy and inferiority. It`s amazing how many legal ways to break an agreement once you sign it. I made a selection below. It is not intended as a checklist for those trying to circumvent their legal obligations, but it can shed light and inform some conjecture about the legal effectiveness of the agreements. It goes without saying that any particular situation should be considered by a qualified lawyer who has been properly informed. They can also break an agreement if the violation is not essential and has no consequences. In many situations, therefore, agreements are broken several times, but the way in which they are broken is not fundamental to the functioning of the treaty.

Integrity is a man or a woman of your word. Let your life be the embodiment of your deepest values, in other words, your discourse. Compliance with agreements is an important element of integrity. Integrity is the foundation of a good relationship and a successful life. If you do not comply with the agreements, it will seriously damage and reduce your level of integrity. You can honor your values with your words and actions, in order to live in a crucial way, to be a leader and to be an important person in your work. If you don`t respect your agreements, you`re contaminating everything. The paradox is that what they do not feel is exactly what will activate their recovery. They must be shattered by shame.

People desperately want to avoid shame. But shame can save your life if you feel it directly in the supportive environment. The feeling of shame begins the process of collapse which becomes a breakthrough. The permanent public confessional allows for the forgiveness of others. This is called a moral code — a series of agreements that each person followed to ensure that the group survived. Forgiveness is not enough. We have to stop lying. Forgiveness is not the problem, it can prevent people from feeling the shame they have caused.

Once the people who betrayed them receive their disgrace, redemption can take place. It`s the interaction that heals. People who have caused harm to others through their broken agreements must suffer. This suffering is necessary to open their hearts and experience true remorse, which is a prerequisite for inner transformation. They are also legally in a position to violate an agreement, for example if it is a gentlemen`s agreement or if it is not binding. It could be, for example, an agreement that is accepted. Many agreements include hybrids of legally enforceable obligations and obligations that are contained in the text to direct people to what still needs to happen, but which are not always specific enough for the parties to comply with legally binding obligations. As long as there are people who decipher the consequences of their broken agreements, they don`t have to worry about how they abandon people and cause damage.